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Standing Out at the Wedding: Bolo Ties (ask forgiveness, not permission)

Weddings are a time to celebrate love, unity... and making a mark with your fashion choices (It doesn't have to a special day for just the bride).

Plus, do you really want to spend 20 minutes watching "how to tie a Windsor knot" YouTube videos in front of your bathroom mirror?

Man wearing a bolo tie at a wedding ceremony

You can break away from the norm, and a bolo tie is a great way to do it. This guide will show you why a bolo ties are great choice for weddings, how to pick the right bolo, and how to wear it with confidence.

Why Wear a Bolo Tie to a Wedding?

It's pretty simple. Here’s why you should consider wearing a bolo tie at your next wedding event:

  1. Unique Edge: Stand out from the sea of traditional ties and bowties. A bolo tie brings a distinctive edge to your look, making you the talk of the party for all the right reasons.
  2. Versatility: With a variety of designs and materials, bolo ties can fit into any wedding setting, from rustic barn weddings to modern city ceremonies.
  3. Comfort: Ideal for outdoor or warm-weather weddings. Bolo ties are lightweight and easy to wear, making them a cool-er & more comfortable choice than a traditional tie. No more feeling like your neck is in a chokehold.
  4. Conversation Starter: Bolo ties draw attention and spark curiosity. Be ready for compliments and questions :) Who doesn't love being the center of attention?
wearing a bolo tie with a suit to a western wedding in Texas.

Choosing the Right Bolo Tie

Picking the right bolo tie is crucial: Here’s how to choose the best one:

Design & Style

  1. Classic: For a timeless look, go for bolo ties featuring western scenes and images. Think cowboys on the frontier, desert cactus, and Native American motifs.
  2. Customized: For a personal touch, consider a customized bolo tie. It's a great way to add a unique element to your outfit and make it even more special.
  3. Be You. Choose a bolo that you like. Confidence comes naturally when you're comfortable... so make it easy on yourself and don't worry about what other people would think.

Size & Logistics

  1. Cord Length: Ensure the cord length is appropriate for your height. Typically, the cord tips should hang a few inches below the sternum.
  2. Pendant Size: Pick a pendant size that suits your build and the event's formality. Larger pendants make a strong statement, while smaller ones are more understated, sleek, and subtle.
  3. Complement Your Outfit: Think about the other stuff your wearing. Choose a bolo with colors that work well with your shirt, shoes, etc.

    How to Wear a Bolo Tie with Confidence

    Wearing a bolo tie correctly can elevate your look. Here’s how to nail it for a wedding:

    Formal Look:

    Collared Shirt: Opt for a crisp, well-fitted collared shirt. Solid colors or subtle patterns work best to let the bolo tie take center stage.

    Position the Slide: Place the slide centered between the collar points, with the cords lying flat against your chest.

    Adjust the Length: The tips of the cords should hang a few inches below your sternum for a sharp look.

    a man wearing a formal bolo tie with cord under the shirt collar

    Semi-Formal or Casual Look

    Shirt Style: For a relaxed vibe, try different shirts like short-sleeve or Cuban collar shirts, or experiment with southwestern patterns & more vibrant color schemes.

    Looser Fit: Wear the bolo tie with a looser fit, letting the slide hang lower on your chest. You can even let one side of the cord hang slightly longer for a more laid-back appearance. Women especially can treat a bolo tie more like a necklace.

    southwestern pattern shirt with a cowboy bolo tie

    More Options

    Suit or Blazer: Pairing your bolo tie with a suit, blazer, or pea coat can change your whole look. A vest can add a touch of class.

    Footwear: Choose shoes that match your overall outfit. Cowboy boots are perfect for a Western-themed wedding, while dress shoes are better for formal events.

    A bolo tie should be long enough to reach a few inches below the breastbone/sternum

      Etiquette and Appropriateness

      When wearing a bolo tie to a wedding, it’s important to consider the event’s dress code and regional norms:

      • Understand the Dress Code: Check the wedding invitation for the dress code. For black-tie events, choose a smaller, more modest bolo tie.
      • Consult with the Couple: If unsure, ask the couple for guidance on whether a bolo tie fits the event’s theme... or don't! Sometimes it's fun to make a splash ;)
      • Regional Norms: Bolo ties are widely accepted in the southwestern United States. If the wedding is in these areas, you're more likely to spot a bolo tie out in it's natural habitat :)

      Why a Bolo Tie is a Smart Choice

      Wearing a bolo tie to a wedding isn’t just about standing out; it’s about making a smart fashion choice. Here’s why:

      • Break the Mold: Show that you’re not afraid to break away from traditional fashion norms and make a statement.
      • Comfort Matters: Do you really want to spend 20 minutes watching "how to tie a Windsor knot" YouTube videos in front of your bathroom mirror? A bolo ties are light weight and cool.. and also look cool.
      • Attention Grabber: Be prepared to be the center of attention. Bolo ties are conversation starters, and you'll receive plenty of compliments.

      Now You're Ready...

      Rocking a bolo tie at a wedding is a bold move that can set you apart and make a memorable impression. Plus, it's hard to go wrong with a bolo tie... have you ever seen one that looked bad?

      Next time you’re invited to a wedding, don’t hesitate to reach for a bolo tie. And if you're looking for something truly unique, check out our collection of bolo ties featuring intricate illustrations and customizable options.

      Remember, Ties are boring. Don't be boring: Be Bolo'd.

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